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Balance Morsels
Creating Balance
or The Art of Living in a Restless World
by Kristin Morrison
| Rest when you are tired. |
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Go on *more* than 2
vacations a year. |
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Say NO a lot! |
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| Hire a housecleaner - start
with once a month. |
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Read more books. |
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Listen, really listen to
others. |
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| Include dates with yourself
in your appointment book. |
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Get a massage and don't
plan to do anything afterward but bask in the glow of it. |
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Get into a regular schedule
of journal writing. |
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| Plan something simple and
fun to look forward to each and every day. |
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Reach out for help when you
need it. |
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Stop saying "I'm too
busy." What can you do to change that? |
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| Ask your friends and family
what they do to relax and recharge. |
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Look at someone in your
life who you feel *lives* a balanced life - emulate them. |
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STOP doing the 'one more
thing' thing: "Oh, I'll just do the dishes and then
I can relax." Stop! |
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| Cook simple and healthy
meals. |
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Don't buy anything for a
whole week - you can do it! |
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Give your TV a hiatus. |
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| Ask for help (delegate) |
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Ask yourself: What
would my world look like if I was the most important
person in my life? How would I do things
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What I Know About
Balance
by Rebecca Carlisle
Well, I know what the word means.
Sort of. Maybe I should look
it up in the dictionary. The word
"balance" touches on practically everything.
It involves opposing forces, gracefulness, weighing, thinking,
pondering, measuring, judging, deciding, stability, an aesthetically
pleasing integration of elements, mental and emotional stability, harmony. What balance
means to me is a feeling of peace. I
don't have this experience often. And
it doesn't mean the peace of sleep. It
means feeling peaceful while in the middle of doing everything in my life.
A day that includes stretching my mind as well as muscles, laughing and
crying, being creative and supportive, learning something, discovering
something.
Why do I expect to just write this all
the way through? Why do I expect so
much of myself? I think the real
test is the balance between the clutch and the accelerator!
Balance and the Self-Employed
by Kristin Morrison
| Don't work yourself harder
than your employees. |
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Let the "pain in the
butt" clients go (they are not worth your time and
energy in the long run). |
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Get out of scarcity mode:
realize there will always be plenty of
clients and business. |
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| Ask yourself: What is
the biggest time waster in my business? Think how
you can do that Time Waster differently. |
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Set goals each month for
your business (90% of my goals are achieved not from
working harder but simply by reading and focusing on my
goals each day) |
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Delegate, delegate,
delegate |
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Raise your prices or rates
slightly each year (give yourself and your
employees a raise!) |
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Decide what you would do
with your life if you had lots of free time. If
you don't think about it now you may not know what to do
with your time when you get it. |
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Hire people you don't have
to worry about |
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| Get clear on what
skills/qualities you want in employees before hiring. |
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Book time for yourself in
your appointment book. |
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